One of the many Monday morning thoughts. Except once again, I can’t complain about this Monday because it is now the second Monday in a row where we have had a snow day. With February vacation in just 5 days, this day off is definitely not needed. But then again, I can’t complain about sleeping until 10 and being in pajamas for the majority of the day.
It has been some time since I’ve posted last because this past week has been extremely busy BUT very exciting! A couple new things have come along…
A new member to the family and a soon-to-be new running buddy. Her name is Mei and she is absolutely beautiful and perfect. She is only 4 months so we are going to let her little bones grow before taking her out for runs but she is certainly going to be one hell of running buddy. Gosh, I hope I don’t slow her down!
She may be younger and more energetic but Cooper still knows how to hold down the house and can put up a good fight when Mei is being a feisty one.
..And this right here sums it all up. Ha ha
And since these past two weeks have been all about new things – new car, new pup..I am happy to announce I also have a new job. It is more like another job but new fits the theme. I am happy to announce that in addition to my 6th grade teaching job, I am also the head varsity women’s lacrosse coach for the town that I teach in. Even better…it’s the same team I once played for. The thought of my schedule being even more crazy than it already is is a bit intimidating but I am beyond excited to work with a great group of girls and really take the team to a new level. I can’t wait to build a team with strength, endurance, trust, confidence and skill.
When I think about the type of coach I want to be, my crossfit coach definitely comes to mind. She is blunt, she is harsh, and she is loud but she CARES. She believes in her athletes and sometimes that means yelling at them to step it up. It may not always be easy to hear, but it is always what I need to hear.
I write this not only because it describes the trusting relationship I hope to have with my players but because it is what pulled me through one of the toughest mentally workouts this week. Mid workout, I failed a clean and from there it was downhill. The weight was doable, I had already done a couple successfully. But with just one failed attempt, I was mentally defeated. My personality and mental defeat do not mix well. I could have/wanted to just drop some weight and cruise through the workout but my coach did not give that as an option. She had me step back and clear my head but most important, she just trusted in me. She knew I could finish the workout with that weight despite the struggle and mental frustration. And with that trust, I was able to successfully clean two more reps.
All in all, I hope to be the coach that instills perseverance, trust and confidence in each player. As a coach, you can teach your players all the skills in the world, but without confidence, without drive, without determination, without perserverance…those skills are purposeless.
On that note, I hope every takes on the work week strong!